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Weekly 3: Opportunities in a crisis

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Summary: Borrow another's perspective. Travel across time. Choose your attitude. (~6 min read)
 

Idea Journal Weekly 3

March 15 · Issue #130 · View online
We combine 3 ideas to help you think differently and be more creative.

Summary: Borrow another’s perspective. Travel across time. Choose your attitude. (~6 min read)

#1. An opportunity to see with another's eyes
Author and entrepreneur Derek Sivers says in an interview that imagining another person’s perspective helps him deal with a crisis.
In the past, when facing a crisis, he would immediately call someone who was wise but removed from the situation. 
As Sivers puts it: “Not even a best friend, but a person you only talk to a couple times a year, so that they could see the gist of the situation without all of the confusing minutiae details and give some advice based on just looking at the broad strokes.”
But after doing this several times, Sivers realized that before calling such a person, he could spend time imagining what they would say.
He now does this first: “I try to zoom out and imagine a detached wise person looking at this, and then if I’m still stumped, I call an actual person.”
#2. An opportunity to time travel
Author and researcher Robert Greene writes in his book The Laws of Human Nature that “wisdom tends to come to us when it’s too late.”
We often lack perspective in the present. As time passes, we gain more information and see more of the truth: “what was invisible to us in the present now becomes visible in retrospect.”
But as Greene points out, our relationship with time is more malleable than we think. We can expand our view of the present moment by adopting what he calls the “farsighted perspective,” using the following two steps: 
1. When we’re faced with a challenge, we train ourselves to detach from the heat of the moment. We work to calm down our fear, and get some distance. 
2. Next, we deepen and widen our perspective. We force ourselves to look at the overall context of the challenge, not just what immediately grabs our attention. We then imagine how the challenge might play out over time, and the negative consequences of the strategies we’re considering. We remember our long-term goals, and use them to inform our priorities in the present.
You can visualize this process by imagining the following scenario: at the base of a mountain, in a thick forest, we can’t easily map out our surroundings. We can only see what’s before our eyes. 
As we move up the side of the mountain, we can see more of the surroundings and how they relate to the broader landscape. The higher we go, the more we realize that what we thought further down was actually distorted.
At the top of the mountain, we finally have a panoramic view and a clear understanding of the landscape.
#3. An opportunity to choose your reaction
Author Rolf Dobelli writes in his book The Art of the Good Life that as the world becomes more complex and interconnected, the greater the likelihood of new and unexpected negative events.
For Dobelli, this means it’s increasingly important to invest in your “mental fortress” – the set of attitudes that emotionally prepares you for loss. 
Whatever happens, your thoughts, and how you interpret loss and setbacks, can never be taken from you. Your mental fortress is “a piece of freedom that can never be assailed.”
As Dobelli notes, the ancient practical philosophy of Stoicism can serve as a guide for building your mental fortress. 
He tells the story of the Stoic philosopher Boethius to illuminate Stoicism’s core lessons. 
Boethius was a successful intellectual and senator who occupied high offices in 6th century Rome. His passion was translating books from Greek to Latin. But one day, he was accused of supporting a conspiracy against the king, and was sentenced to death. 
He lost everything: his money, his houses, his library, and his freedom. 
Boethius wrote his last book, The Consolation of Philosophy, in jail while waiting to be executed. 
The book is a conversation between Boethius himself and Lady Philosophy. She shares the following three lessons to help him cope with his losses and upcoming execution.
1. Accept the existence of fate. Those who experience highs will also experience lows. Don’t be too concerned with whether you’re ascending or descending because it can all be turned on its head.
2. Everything you own, value, and love is ephemeral: your health, your partner, your children, your friends, your house, your money. The best perspective to have is that these things are on loan to you, and can be taken away at any time: “By death, if nothing else.”
3. Remember that all sweet things are tinged with bitterness: “Whining is misplaced.”
Dobelli points to Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl as a more modern example of someone who embodied the Stoic philosophy and built a secure mental fortress.
Here’s a passage from Frankl’s book Man’s Search for Meaning:
“We who lived through concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
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Quote of the Week
“What’s very fortunate, beautiful, wonderful, and also, in a weird way, tragic about modern society, is that crisis has been removed. When you reintroduce a crisis like in the Blitz in London or an earthquake that I wrote about in Avezzano, Italy, early in the 20th century, things change. 
In Avezzano, something like 95% of the population was killed … People had to rely on each other, so everyone – upper-class people, lower-class people, peasants, nobility – sort of crouched around the same campfires. 
One of the survivors said, ‘The earthquake gave us what the law promises but does not, in fact, deliver, which is the equality of all men.’”
- Journalist Sebastian Junger in an interview with author and entrepreneur Tim Ferriss
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